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Capturing the good things that happen

22 Sunday Mar 2026

Posted by shewrite63 in pets, writing, community, Travel, Health, Food and Cooking, family

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concerts, diets, goals, healthy eating, houseplants, music, weight-loss

It has been a while since I posted here. I had no energy to write and had no useful thoughts to add to the noise.

It has been four months since we said farewell to the elderly Tabby Cat. She had a good life with excellent care from her human servants for 20 years.

It has been a difficult winter in Eastern Ontario. Christmas and New Years arrived in a blur. To tackle the effects of winter depression, I set out on a mission: I subscribed to a 12-week weight-loss plan, installed an app on my phone and embraced the daily text chats with an AI coach. When the weather conditions allowed, I pushed myself to get out for frequent walks and grocery runs with friends. The app and AI coach appealed to my OCD tendencies so I obediently logged everything I ate and drank, and acquiesced to take longer overnight fasts. I met my target weight goal (shook off 14 pounds) three weeks before the April 1 completion date.

Key points:

  • Eat healthy
  • Eat less tasty snacks
  • Increase body movement
  • Drink more water
  • Fast for overnight periods longer than 12 hours
Simple weight-loss plan progress February 2026

Unfortunately, I have been hovering above my target weight this week due to icy conditions not conducive to walkies, plus stress eating after listening to the news. Aside from that, I am seeing better results than with last year’s attempt at losing weight.

World events have been getting me down, and the cruelty and corruption of the US administration makes me angry. These are things beyond my control but it’s reassuring to know that there are kind people and organizations who protest the injustices, challenge the bullies, and protect the downtrodden.

January brought some reassurance while listening to Canada’s articulate and calm Prime Minister Mark Carney speak at the World Economic Forum in Davos, Switzerland. I have listened to his WEF speech many times. What a breath of fresh air compared to the lying windbag to the south who is constantly criticising established world organizations and threatening tariffs on trade partners. Puppet master Putin must be pleased with the progress. Let us have hope and trust in the calm and cooperative middle powers who are already establishing trade agreements with each other.

Then there’s the US-Israel war on Iran. The orange dictator and his minions were willing to aid in the unwarranted attacks, the constant bombing of the Iranian infrastructure, murdering political-religious leaders and innocent citizens. They kicked a hornet’s nest and are causing economic disruptions.

Yep, it’s all beyond my control. I keep my focus on doing good deeds around home and in the broader community.

As I did in 2025, I started gathering receipts, ticket stubs and small pieces of notepaper as records of good things happening in my small corner of the world. A large pickle jar is filling up with good things.

Good things that happened in 2026 jar

I added notes about pushing my social anxieties and aversion to noise by participating in philanthropic activities, fundraising events and attending a much-anticipated concert.

William Prince in concert at the National Arts Centre March 20, 2026

I had purchased the William Prince tickets in January and had the March 20th target date in my view as something fun to look forward to over the next two months. That tactic has gotten me through many a dark winter with the plan, the hope for an enjoyable experience to come.

One more Good Thing I can soon add to my jar is the fact that I got to cat-sit for neighbours who took a March Break road trip with their kids. Checking on the energetic and cute feline a couple of times a day brings me joy. Cleaning up after her reminds me about the mess, cost and responsibilities of pet ownership. I congratulate myself that I can return to a clean and quiet home with no intentions of bringing in another furry creature. I wish to travel more this year without the worry and costs for accommodating a pet. I am satisfied with caring for our houseplants.

Christmas Cactus blooms in March

I hope you are managing well as we navigate challenging times, and look forward to a slow, gentle spring. My next post may be about the joys of gardening in my peaceful little corner of the world.

Thanks for dropping by. Stay healthy and kind.

T

Farewell to an elderly family member

22 Monday Dec 2025

Posted by shewrite63 in creativity, family, Health, pets

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I haven’t been feeling creative or joyful since November, after saying goodbye to our 20 year-old cat, holding her furry little body until the final heartbeat.

Inspiration may return after the holidays and in the hopeful beginnings of 2026.

T

Creative reset revelations

08 Monday Sep 2025

Posted by shewrite63 in Art, community, creativity, economy, Health, therapy, writing

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Art, autism spectrum, community, creative reset, doodles, drawing, expression, neurodivergence, painting, summer cold, therapy

“Comparison is the thief of joy” (widely attributed to Theodore Roosevelt)

Are you a creative type who sometimes feels like you need a reset, a boost, or supportive motivation? Does it feel like your world is off-kilter lately? I was looking for inspiration beyond my childlike doodles that kept me comforted during the COVID-19 pandemic.

This too shall pass. COVID-19 doodle therapy from 2020

Perhaps you are a sensitive type, becoming saddened and overwhelmed by world events, disgusted by greedy billionaire men and cruel dictators. Do you turn off the news and turn to YouTube clips of your favourite late night hosts and interviews?

Well, a couple of weeks ago the Universe provided me with a YouTube ad by a chipper UK artist, offering a free, ten-day online “Creative Reset” art course. Sign me up!

Staring at the blank page

For the first couple of days, I was committed although the instructor did most of her demonstrations with acrylic paints and oddball materials. I tried my best with the dollar store water colours in my limited workspace. I was determined to create. The demos and assignments challenged my logic and aversion to waste. My chosen paints did not offer a good sense of flow and brilliant colour mixtures. I lacked workspace and storage space for the recommended output of copious practice pieces.

I appreciated the frequent check-in emails and Q&A sessions with the instructor and her coaches. Thousands of people from all over the world had registered. I embraced the shared interest and joy emanating from the group. I felt a sense of community.

I soon became distracted by the comments and reactions in the live video chats, which I learned how to hide from view. I became overwhelmed by the number of posts in the dedicated Facebook group, and the increased notifications in my profile. Agh!

Was this the result of my lack of focus, possible ADHD symptoms that developed during the pandemic – or undiagnosed neurodivergence? Why did I find it counterproductive to participate in this worldwide community?

The first few assignments

Around that time, I developed symptoms of a summer cold; my throat was sore, my nose was runny. I started to cough. And cough. And cough. I became disappointed with my outputs after viewing photographs of others’ work in the Facebook group.

“Comparison is the thief of joy”

I needed to take a break. I felt overstimulated and disheartened. My sides hurt from coughing. My head hurt too. I medicated and drank plenty of water. I slept. I forgave myself for quitting the course at the final assignment. I allowed myself to rest.

Lessons learned?

  1. Welcome interest in new endeavours but moderate your energy and attention;
  2. Resist comparing your art work with others’;
  3. Continue being a creative type on your own terms;
  4. Use that letter from your GP to get tested for the autism spectrum.

Thanks for stopping by. How are your creative pursuits going?

T

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