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Cutting the cord, cutting costs

02 Sunday Jul 2023

Posted by shewrite63 in community, economy, Health

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communication, economizing, expenses, family, friends, home phone, landline, rent, telemarketers, telephones

It took two years to make the decision, one that addressed the need to economize, and to cease interruptions to our quiet home life.

We no longer have a “home phone” number, no longer have a landline. Gone is the ability for family and friends to reach us at a consistent number, on a service that functions during power outages when the cellular system becomes overloaded.

ELO – Jeff Lynne – Telephone Line

I declined a friend’s suggestion to subscribe to an affordable VOIP service (Voice over Internet Protocol). That option would require additional gadgetry and did not appeal to my criteria of eliminating more electronics in our home.

We wanted to delay the inevitable requirement to sign on with the telecom’s fibre connection they are installing in many neighbourhoods around our city. People are feeling forced to eventually use their bundled services. Thankfully, we can still use the Internet connection and modem provided by our community ISP, one of the remaining not-for-profit resellers and service providers. I have learned about “wet line” DSL and “dry copper” DSL (Digital Subscriber Line).

The physical line changes went smoothly, better than the act of informing our telecom through online chat and eventual conversation on my cell that I wanted to discontinue the home phone service and subsequent billing.

All the old phones and cords are packed into a box and inserted in the storage nook for the benefit – or burden – of family archaeologists. We now rely on our personal cell phones, instant messaging and email for communications – when in-person gatherings are not possible.

Blondie – Hanging on the Telephone

This transition has been emotional with a touch of nostalgia. One can feel comforted that we can use the savings to soothe the pain of an approaching rent increase, and gain peace and quiet in our humble home by eliminating calls from telemarketers.

It only took me two years to make that decision. So, what’s next: Expenses related to entertainment, clothing, restaurant gatherings with friends, or that geriatric cat?

Thank you for stopping by. Perhaps you can commiserate about the lost era of communications?

T

Canadian Thanksgiving 2021

10 Sunday Oct 2021

Posted by shewrite63 in community, Health, pets, philosophy, therapy, writing

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boundaries, canadian thanksgiving, celebration, COVID-19, family, friends, health, pandemic, reflection

What is there to be thankful for eighteen months into the COVID-19 pandemic?

You have your health.

You are double vaccinated.

You have the privilege to visit restaurants, theatres and gyms – if you actually wanted to.

You have a place to call home.

You have family and close friends, still reachable on various platforms.

None of your family or friends have succumbed to the virus.

You still have a job.

You still are able to work from home.

You are less stressed because you aren’t forced to use unreliable public transportation two hours a day.

You are more productive, creative and relaxed when you aren’t forced to conform to the visual expectations of some corporate culture.

You have the freedom to get outside for walks around your neighbourhood for fresh air, to pick up provisions, and engage with community acquaintances.

You found a new network of like-minded folks, opportunities to rekindle that sense of purpose, of contributing your time, energy and skills.

You have remembered that you have the right to set boundaries with family, friends and others.

You have had plenty of time for quiet reflection on life, your values and priorities.

You have let your inner child emerge during bouts of creativity.

Basket of kittens for the Grand kids

You continue to review your list of accomplishments, and many things to look forward to.

You finally have opportunities to warm the home by using the oven and stove top to cook delicious meals.

You can still afford to buy groceries and necessities.

You can share your thoughts with others through a talk radio show this evening, using various platforms.

https://www.cbc.ca/radio/checkup/what-are-you-thankful-for-this-thanksgiving-1.6204049

Happy Thanksgiving.

Thanks for dropping by.

T

Putting your house in order

24 Monday May 2021

Posted by shewrite63 in Health, philosophy, reading

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archives, books, boxes, cats, clutter, family, family history, home, move, storage

Thank goodness for extra long weekends. Since I don’t have a cottage to travel to during a pandemic, I invested my time continuing to organize our new home.

  • Yesterday I unpacked three suitcases from the move; two contained the remainder of my seasonal wardrobe. It feels like I am clothes shopping in my closet after cycling through four basic outfits for the past month. Bonus!
  • I spent the sticky, humid half of the long weekend sorting through boxes of books, finding appropriate spots for them in the limited supply of bookcases. You can read about it in this blog post written by the Tabby Cat.
  • The excess boxes with questionable historical value have been tucked away for later inventory. They may have to come with me during the next move to an even smaller rental. Either that or my adult children will have to deal with them after I die.

This may sound morbid but I think it’s important for adults to consider the eventuality of one’s death and make preparations to alleviate the burden on others.

It becomes more of a consideration during a pandemic.

Thanks for dropping by. Stay safe. Be kind.

T

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