Tearful Nostalgia and Travel Whimsy in Québec

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Sometimes we need a little whimsy to cope with fears and recover after emotional situations.

I am taking a well-deserved vacation from the working world.  Last week I travelled by train to spend time with four sisters in Québec City.

We were on a sort of pilgrimage, visiting the home town of our dear, late Mother.  During our stay we put on our tourist shoes in-between visits with our elderly Aunt and our French cousin.

Wall Mural Quebec City

Wall Mural Quebec City

Planning for this trip had started in the depths of a long, cold Canadian winter. I was looking for something that provided more comfortable travel than my bumpy airplane ride up North in 2012 and something that ensured more walking – and less wine and rich foods than my wine country tour in 2013. An off-hand suggestion within sibling email discussions evolved this into plans for a sisters’ reunion.  Our six (!) brothers plus in-laws have been getting together on an annual basis for nearly 30 years. Why shouldn’t the sisters take some time away from family and work for a little reunion too? 

While in Québec City, we definitely got in enough walking. We also consumed sufficient wine and rich foods.  Hence we appreciated the opportunities to burn calories while exploring old Québec.

Chateau Frontenac Aug 2014

Chateau Frontenac

Some of us had plenty opportunity to practise French which was our Mother’s first language.  We asked questions of our sweet Aunt about growing up in Québec City, of her recollections of our Mother’s younger years and her future aspirations before meeting our Father during WWII.

Our Aunt answered our many questions and confirmed indeed that our Mother had plans to get married and have children. We don’t know if she planned on having so many children though. The results of our inquiries quelled my concerns and speculations on how she may have lived a healthier, longer life.

My sisters became curious about my little traveling companion – a small stuffed owl and how I included him in landmark photographs. At first, it was likely seen as another of their youngest sibling’s quirky distractions.

Le penseur statue Quebec City

Owlie and Le penseur statue

Owlie and I go way back – at least to May 2014 when I tweeted my disappointment at not winning a critter during a Telus Business sponsored seminar. Telus quickly responded and offered to send me a critter.  They sent two!

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When Owlie and I first met

While the lazy Panda stayed home, Owlie accompanied me and a couple of the offspring for touristy activities around Ottawa this summer.   He appealed to my sense of whimsy and promise for a few Amélie-esque excursions

While in Québec City, this critter accompanied me to challenge my fear of heights. 

He added a sense of adventure and whimsy to my trip.

He accompanied us to a museum exhibit of the Greek Gods but unfortunately, I wasn’t able to sneak a real-time photo due to to copyright issues – Phfft! So I spent money on a book and an owl-themed souvenir.

 

My four older sisters warmed up to Owlie’s presence and participated in pointing out owl-themed photographic opportunities. After a while, they were either sharing in my whimsy or becoming tired and sadistic in their discoveries – 

one – 

Owlie store window pic 1

after – 

Owlie store window pic 2

the – 

Owlie store window pic 3

other!

Owlie souvenir store pic 4
During the morning of our last day, Owlie served as our talking stick while we gathered in one hotel room to say our tearful goodbyes. Everyone got a turn to speak – uninterrupted.

Owlie talking stick

Owlie as the sisters’ talking stick (notice we removed the tourist attraction stickers)

We all enjoyed our time together despite the occasional miss-communication and agreed to do this sisters’ reunion on a regular basis, straddling the full family reunions every five years.

I am already saving up for my next travel adventure somewhere in Canada. Of course I will be sure to pack my little companion to help document the experience through photographs as I continue to learn about geography, history and culture – while embracing a sense of childlike wonder and whimsy. 

Below are some choice Twitter exchanges with Via Rail Canada and Owlie’s Telus family: 

 

 

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Thanks for dropping by.  Please note that this post was not sponsored by Telus nor Via Rail. I just like their way of doing business in satisfying requests and accommodating travellers.  

If you like my writing style and childlike sense of wonder, you may enjoy reading the ebook version of The Year of the Rabbit – a novel about Fate, Family and Forgiveness. It has many excerpts that show my nostalgic fondness for trains. I don’t think owls are featured. Why not read it to find out? 

Theresa

Speculative Fiction

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Imagine writing a story where you change a character’s choices so that the outcome wouldn’t include your own birth.

What if?  What if?

This could come from existential anxiety, lapsed Catholic guilt or continued disgust over religious views about birth control.

At times I wish my Mother had a happier life with less poverty and mental health strain. Would I be willing to forfeit my own existence if she and her humble carpenter husband had the courage to defy church rules?  I remember her stories about attending mass with a batch of clean but raggedly dressed offspring and observing other couples with their one or two well-attired children in their pews.

During sentimental moments, I wish I could travel back in time to help her.

Of course, we know time travel doesn’t exist else some crazy genius would have done this by now to prevent world wars, horrific abuses on humanity, environmental disasters and the ongoing conflict in the Middle East. What a fucked-up world. Thousands of years of evolution, diplomatic exchanges, technological improvements and we still have this mess to hand over to our children. No wonder we have disillusioned youth. 

I digress.  

When reading about or discussing time travel, my pretty blonde head spins and nearly implodes.

Back to the Future was one of my favourite movies with Michael J. Fox. The Huey Lewis and the News soundtrack rocked my world during my own time of young love.  I got confused in attempts to follow the sequels.

 

I am intrigued by the statements of the creepy yet insightful Über-Morlock in the 2002 movie version of H.G. Wells’ The Time Machine:“And what is time travel, but your pathetic attempt to try to control the world around you? Your futile effort to have a question answered? You think I don’t know you, Alexander? I can look inside your memories, your nightmares, your dreams. You’re a man haunted by those two most terrible words: What if?

 

At dinner with writing friends recently, I described plans for a summer vacation trip to my Mother’s home town and my ideas for a creative non-fiction story.  Some of the questions and thoughts are outlined in blog posts and Tweets from May and June.

I don’t know how far the story will go.  I don’t know if I’ll end up doing some speculative fiction, time travel version to convince the single, younger version of my Mother to reconsider her decision and continue her life as an artist – or perhaps a nun.  If so, would that spin off an alternate reality or that my siblings and I would not exist?

If I didn’t exist then how could I finish writing that story?

Thanks for dropping by. Post a comment about writing or time travel reading suggestions if you wish. Any that are off-topic will sent into oblivion.  

T

 

Happiness is…

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Happiness

Peace in the mind

Harmony in the heart

Love in every action

Sow and let grow! 

 

Geneva tabby cat and happiness banner

Happiness

Happiness is also finding a purr-fect place to cat nap.

Thanks for dropping by.  You may want to saunter over to the other blog where Geneva Tabby Cat has taken over.  She will make appearances here during lulls in my deep blonde thoughts.

T